Savor The Days

Couples by the Creek at Cinnamon Creek Ranch

Every month, Cinnamon Creek Ranch hosts a special event called Couples by the Creek. It is an event just for couples so we get either a babysitter or use Adventure Kids to watch the little ones. Cinnamon Creek organizes archery games for the couples so it is a fun way to meet other archers. They provide wonderful appetizers for us while we shoot and then an incredible meal and dessert to finish out the night.

I usually don't have problems with this but my bow string snapped my arm pretty badly and I already have a big bruise. I know from experience that this will get bigger and uglier tomorrow and will probably be there for the next week. What a romantic date night, right?

Stuart is really good at archery and it was fun to see him competing with some of the other guys as they moved back to the 30 yard line.

We headed outside to the pavillon for dinner. Cinnamon Creek Ranch owns its own meat processing plant and the owner has restaurant/catering experience so the meals are always great. It was hard waiting for the meat to be done because the smells were just incredibly good!

Dinner included jambalaya, smoked axis deer, grilled vegetables, and a rich potato salad. What a wonderful date night!

My Puzzle Girl

Stuart and Nicholas went out running errands early this morning so Rachel and I had some quiet time together. I love having special Mommy-Daughter time!

Usually Nicholas and Rachel are off playing while I'm taking a shower and getting ready in the morning. But without Nicholas there, Rachel got out one of her puzzles and spread it out on the bathroom floor to work on it.

Ever since she was really little, she has loved putting puzzles together. And she makes it look quick and easy.

Left Handed or Right Handed?

Stuart is out of town on a business trip for tonight and tomorrow night. It was neat that he was able to use his tablet he uses for work to have a video conference with the kids before they went to bed. They were so excited to be able to tell him good night. Stuart has been reading Narnia to Nicholas at night and he said it would have been neat if he had the book there and could continue reading it to Nicholas over Skype each night.

With Stuart gone, I've had a little bit more quiet time to myself. I decided to work on an issue we've had with Rachel. We've been struggling with trying to figure out if she is left handed or right handed. It's hard for me to teach her how to hold a pencil and how to write when I can't figure out which hand she should be using.

We don't have any lefties on either side of our family that we know of so the fact that this is even a question we are dealing with still boggles my mind.

In preschool Nicholas appeared to be ambidextrous. He picked up his pencil with which ever hand was closer. As he learned to write, he seemed to write fine with either hand and would sometimes switch
hands in the middle of writing. The handwriting was about the same from each hand - one wasn't neater than the other. In Kindergarten, we really needed to work on handwriting so we had him stick with his right hand going forward since there seemed to be no preference either way. There hasn't been any issues since.

Rachel is 4. She likes to write with her left hand but does most other things with her right side. She use her right hand when she cuts with scissors. When she takes a step to walk, she starts with her right foot. She kicks a ball with her right foot. I've heard or read that which ever hand you write with tells you what your dominant side is and you will do every thing else with preference and strength on that side. But this is all mixed up with her.

I try to get her to write a word with each hand so I can see how she does with controlling the pencil and compare if one side is neater than the other. But she says she likes to write with the left hand better and will purposefully mess up her right hand writing (love those preschoolers!).

It is possible that she has figured out a good grip position with her left hand and it just feels more comfortable. She seems to struggle with how to grip the pencil with her right hand - but she gets stubborn when I try to teach her how to hold it in her right hand and doesn't want to cooperate.

I want to work with her on handwriting but I'm stuck until I figure out which hand she should be using. I hate to train her to hold her pencil and write as a left hander if she is really right side dominant or vice versa.

I have a great group of other homeschool moms so I sent an email to the group explaining the situation. Here are some of the responses I received....

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I am by no means an expert but these are some things our speech therapist and occupational therapists told us.

Roll up a piece of paper, hold it out to her and tell her to put it up to her eye to look through. Whichever eye she puts it to is likely her dominant hand.

Another thing to look at is her gross motor skills. Whichever hand is dominant doing gross motor skills is the one to go with.

Diane

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My son is a lefty. He swings the bat with both and plays lacrosse with both.

I really think she will naturally just pick up her pencil or crayon and write with what feels most comfortable.

I would, as Kathe Lee always says, go with the student. Even though she is young she will write with what is comfortable.

My son has beautiful handwriting even though he is left handed.

I know you will figure it out!

Debbie

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I am the adult version of your daughter. I was actually considered ambidextrous in grade school but one I my teachers made me choose since my handwriting was very different with each hand. I chose to write with my left hand.

Besides using silverware or writing, I do everything else right-handed. Played tennis and softball right-handed and can only cut with knives or scissors right-handed. I would say let her use a pencil with whichever hand she chooses and don't influence her. My life is not hindered in any way whatsoever. Okay, I will admit that the credit card machines at WalMart and everywhere else were not made with lefties in mind.

Your daughter is most likely exhibiting signs of high intelligence and overall awesomeness!! HA!

Lori

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I second what Diane said. We were told the same thing in combination with tell her you want to whisper something in her ear and see which ear she gives you. Then tell her you want to whisper something through the door and have her go up to it with someone on the other side to whisper and see which ear she puts to the door,roll the ball and see which foot she chooses to use (not starting off kicking, but a ball rolled to her). In addition to handing her the rolled up paper (or a paper towel tube), if she is truly right side dominant then she should take it with her right hand and put it up to her right eye. If she takes it with her left hand but goes to her right eye or vice versa she is mixed dominance if you see mixed dominance with the other "tests". All this will show her dominate side or mixed dominance. If she is right sided for everything then she is right handed. If she is mixed, then there is more going on. This would be one of our girls. :)

If she is mixed dominance, then there is a good chance she cannot march or crawl correctly either. This is critical to brain organization and sometimes kids who use left side dominant for some things and right side for others, cannot march or crawl correctly.

Hope all this makes since. If she is mixed dominance and she cannot march or crawl correctly, then she should march for 2 minutes each morning and each night. I want to say it was for 3 months minimum. I learned all this at a seminar by Little Giants Big Steps (I think that was the company). This is way more than you asked for, but I figured I would type it all up at once rather than saying email if she is mixed dominance and I'll tell you more! ;)

Tamara

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Husband and I are both right handed. Our son picked his left hand extremely early. (Prior to nine months).

He was diagnosed with dystonia (Variable/Mixed muscle tone in hands) in the fall and now the neurologist and therapists are saying he is truly right handed but switched hands due to muscle control issues on right side of body. He tends to use right size for gross motor skills, where he wants more strength, and left hand for fine motor skills.

Mixed dominance (for whatever reason) can cause cause problems later on, as we are now learning.

If you are interested, I can loan you Diane craft's book when we get back. Look at her website, as it is loaded with info.

Suzie

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I can just say that as a lefty, I eat, brush my teeth, crochet and write left handed. Everything else I do - sports and using scissors I do right handed. Just a perspective from a lefty. :)

Janae

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I'm so grateful to have such a wonderful support system of other moms that I can turn to. They can't answer all my questions but it is nice having some feedback and suggestions for other things we might try to help us figure out what's going on.

Now, since Stuart is gone, I'm going downstairs and taking control of the TV remote...just because I can.

Dang, I don't think I know how to work the remote control. How do you turn this thing on??

The Hydrangea Experiment

As we were looking at the the bouquet that Rachel received from Grandmother and Grandfather C., Rachel pointed to the light pink roses and said that they were just like the flowers we have in our front yard. I pointed to the dark pink roses and explained that they were still roses even though they were a different color. Then I also told her the names of the Baby's Breath and Hydrangea.

I remembered hearing that the blooms of a hydrangea plant are different colors based on the acidity of the soil that it grows in. I think acidic soil produces blue flowers and alkaline soil produces pink flowers.

Nicholas was fascinated with this concept. He wondered what would happen to the bloom color is a plant grew with half of the roots in acidic soil and half of the roots in alkaline soil. His theory was that the flowers on one side would be pink and the other side would be blue. Great hypothesis! We discussed how the flowers might all be the same color on the plant but not entirely pink and not entirely blue...maybe more of a lavender blend of the pink and blue. We talked some about the challenges of running an experiment like this.

But most importantly, we told Nicholas how cool it is that he thought of an experiment like this and developed his own hypothesis.

Our Little Dancer

I had to wake Rachel up extra early this morning to get ready for her dress rehearsal for her big dance recital later today. I was a little worried that she would be whiny and fussy since she doesn't like to be woken up from sleep, especially 2 hours before she usually wakes up. But she did fine.

She is such a sweet sleeper, cuddling her pink blanket. I had to snap this pic before I woke the sleeping beauty.

We had a tight schedule since I had to get her hair curled and in full costume to be at the auditorium for 8:30. She was kind of bouncy as I was trying to put curlers in her hair. We were in her room so she kept trying to reach for a toy or dance around. It was getting a bit stressful for me trying to curl a moving target.

I suddenly remembered my mom curling my hair when I was little (I now can appreciate what a challenge it is!) I remembered that she would let me watch TV while she worked on my hair so I scuttled Rachel downstairs and we tried that. Genius!!! Her head stayed still and looked straight ahead the whole time.

She felt pretty special with curlers in her hair! What sass!

She ate breakfast and got her costume on and then we styled her hair. Whew! Everything was going fine. Now just to get to the auditorium. I'm not familiar with that area of town so I was a little worried about finding it. But GPS gave me a clear shot there.

We were almost to the auditorium for the dress rehearsal and we were right on time. I was feeling pretty good. Then Rachel said from the back seat, "Oh no, this is bad. This is really bad." I wish I had gotten a picture of what I saw but I'll just have to say that her pink tights were completely torn up along the front of one leg. It was very obvious but I figured I could at least turn them around so that the tear was on the back side of her leg instead of the front. Not ideal but what else could I do? Who knew I needed to have an extra pair of tights with me!

Fortunately her dance teacher is awesome and prepared for anything so she whipped out an extra pair of tights for Rachel. I got her changed and on stage just in time for their tap dance rehearsal.

Since it is just the rehearsal and not the real show, they let moms get right up to the stage to take pictures and videos.

Here is her tap dance performance. Their teacher is off to the side doing the dance with them to help keep them in step so you'll see them all looking over at her throughout the performance.

(If you are reading this post on email, you will need to click on the title of the post to go to the actual blog post to see the video of her tap dance.)

After the tap dance rehearsal, Rachel was able to come out into the audience and watch some of the other girls perform. She kicked back and relaxed without a care in the world.

Here is the ballet dance. I would have liked to have edited out a little practice run at the beginning of this clip but I'm too impatient to wait for Stuart to re-install the software I need to do it so you'll have to watch the whole thing until I can fix it later.

(Again, if you are reading this in email, you'll have to go to the actual blog to see the video.)

Great dancing Rachel!

We made it home and as we were getting out of the car, a florist van drove up. The lady said she had a delivery for Rachel. Rachel wasn't quite sure what to think but a little smile started to creep across her face when she realized the flowers were sent from Grandmother and Grandfather C. The lady knelt down and showed Rachel all the pretty pink flowers and the little pink bird in the bouquet.